Before approaching a woman, men feel anxious because they are afraid of an awkward silence, or rejection. Any conversations that you have with her are like little games of poker when you’re trying to attract a woman you are interested in. Because the more invested she is in your conversation the more invested she is going to be in your interaction, your goal is to get her to invest an equal or greater amount of effort into the conversation.
All great seducers know that sharing a great conversation with a woman isn’t just about what they say to her. For saying back to them, they understand that it’s as much about what they can get a woman.
Both crucial ingredients if you are to escalate the interaction towards a romantic or sexual outcome: It’s this conversational effort that a woman commits that will help you find commonalities between you and her to create rapport. And then it also help you discover unique things about her which you can show genuine attraction towards.
So in today’s article, for attracting women I want to share conversational topics.
-Books, Movies, Music, and Art
From the get-go, you let’s face it because of not going to have a woman baring her soul to you and sharing her hopes, dreams and deepest fears with you. Before you get there, you’ll need to build a whole lot of comfort and rapport. This is the reason why you should engage to get things started and still need a few conversational topics that are a low effort. It is a great way to do so when you get a woman talking about her favorite books, movies, music or art.
However, the trick here is to not ask for too little. For example, don’t just ask her what her favorite band if a woman tells you that she loves music. Ask a woman to recommend a book to you and get her to tell you what it’s about if he tells you that she loves to read, instead of just asking her who her favorite author is.
The relationship-related topics are like conversational crack for most women, I swear to God!. And it’s coming up with solutions to relationship problems if there’s one thing that women love more than hearing relationship stories. So let’s make a mental note of the story and use it in conversation if the next time you hear about your little cousin’s problems with her boyfriend, or hear about your roommate complaints about his overly possessive girlfriend. And with just how into these topics women can get, you’ll be surprised.
-The People Around You
But there is things if you pay close attention to your surroundings the chances. You’ll find more than enough conversational ammunition to last a whole day. And sometimes, I hear a lot of guys complain saying that they run out of topics to talk about when they’re with a girl that they’re interested in.
For example, I love playing with girls that I’m out on dates on through a fun little game. It is called the “what’s their story” game. You should pick a stranger at random and talk about what you imagine what their story must be like when you’re out on a date with a girl. And to tell you her version, ask your date. I guarantee that you’ll both have a blast, once she gets the hang of it start getting more and more imaginative and ridiculous with your stories.
-Her Passions, Her Dreams, and Her Goals
It’s always such a nice feeling to talk about things, you are passionate about it with a person who’s genuinely interested in these things. And do you remember the last time someone showed genuine interest in your dreams and goals?. And here’s the cool thing with all you need to do to find out these things about her is to ask, once you’ve built up a certain level of trust and rapport with a woman.
In my opinion, sometimes learning to become a mirror is a great conversationalist.
Above are some examples of the things which you can talk with about the girl who you like. Apply them flexibly!